Finding Your Tribe: A Food Writer’s Retreat That Reignited My Passion

Green Gables Estate, Cresco PA

There are moments in life when something just clicks—and you don’t even realize how much you needed it until you’re right in the middle of it.

That’s exactly what happened to me this past weekend.

My Tribe Cooking Crew!

I spent a long weekend at the Substack Food Writer’s Retreat with a group of incredible women (& two men!)—chefs, food writers, cookbook authors, photographers, bloggers, and storytellers.

And here’s the wild part… most of us had never met in person before. We had only connected through Substack.

Doing Improv Group Exercises

But from the moment we arrived, something felt different.

There was this instant ease.

This shared energy.

This feeling like… oh, these are my people.


Magical fun weekend

🍷 A Weekend of Food, Stories & Connection

The weekend was everything you’d imagine—and more.

We cooked together.

Shared meals around a big table.

Talked for hours about food, creativity, business, and life.

Laughed until we couldn’t breathe.

It was one of those experiences where time slows down just enough for you to really feel everything.

And somewhere between chopping herbs, plating dishes, and pouring glasses of wine… we became a tribe.

Not just a group of women who met at a retreat—but a community built on shared passion, mutual respect, and genuine connection.

✨ What “Finding Your Tribe” Really Means

We hear this phrase all the time—find your tribe.

But what does that actually look like?

For me, it’s not just about being surrounded by people.

It’s about being surrounded by the right people.

The ones who:

  • understand what lights you up
  • see your vision
  • support your growth
  • and remind you who you are at your core

It’s that feeling where you don’t have to explain yourself.

You don’t have to tone it down or play small.

You just show up as you are—and that’s enough.

There’s a quote by Jim Rohn that says:

“You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.”

And when you’re in a room full of creative, passionate, driven people?

You feel that shift immediately.

🌿 Why the Right Environment Changes Everything

One of the biggest takeaways from this weekend was just how much your environment impacts you.

When you’re surrounded by people who are aligned with your passions and values:

  • your creativity expands
  • your confidence grows
  • your ideas flow more freely

You start thinking bigger.

Dreaming again.

Taking yourself—and your work—more seriously.

Because you’re no longer questioning whether you belong.

You already know you do.

And that’s where real momentum begins.

🤝 Collaboration Over Competition

Something else that really stood out to me was the energy of support.

There was no competition. No comparison.

Just women genuinely cheering each other on.

Sharing ideas.

Offering advice.

Talking about ways to collaborate.

And it reminded me of something so important:

The right people don’t see your success as a threat.

They see it as inspiration.

As Brené Brown beautifully says:

“We don’t have to do all of it alone. We were never meant to.”

And that’s exactly what this experience felt like.

🍲 The Meals That Brought Us Together

Of course, no food writers retreat would be complete without an unforgettable meal.

And we had many! We all shared breakfast, lunch and dinner together

made by our individual cooking teams and everything was delicious!

For our final dinner, a few of us teamed up to create an Indian-inspired feast with street food appetizers,

Chickpea Curry, Salad, Cumin Rice, a variety of Indian Condiments and a Spiced Cake for dessert —

and I made:

Mini Curried Spinach & Queso Mini Pot Pies w/ Cilantro-Lime Yogurt Sauce

Golden, flaky pastry filled with warm curry-spiced spinach, chickpeas, and creamy queso.

Curried Spinach & Queso Mini Pot Pies

They were comforting, flavorful, and perfect for sharing—just like the weekend itself.

Curried Spinach + Queso Mini Pot Pies

By Kristen Hess / The Artful Gourmet

Baked in Muffin Pans

Makes about 24 pot pies / or 48 mini pot pies

INGREDIENTS

Puff Pastry

  • 4 sheets store-bought puff pastry or shortcrust pastry, thawed
  • Flour for dusting

Spinach + Queso Filling

  • 2 1/2-3 lbs fresh baby spinach, chopped
  • 12 oz queso fresco, crumbled
  • 2 cans (15 oz each) chickpeas, drained and rinsed well
  • 2 small yellow onions, finely diced
  • 4 cloves garlic, minced
  • 3 tbsp curry powder
  • 2 tsp ground turmeric
  • 1 cup heavy cream or coconut milk
  • 2 tbsp olive oil or butter
  • Salt and freshly ground black pepper to taste

Glaze

  • 2 eggs, beaten (optional, for brushing on pastry tops if using)

INSTRUCTIONS

1. Prepare the Filling

  1. Heat olive oil or butter in a large skillet over medium heat.
  2. Add the diced onions and sauté for 5–6 minutes until soft and translucent.
  3. Stir in the garlic, curry powder, and turmeric and cook for 1 minute until fragrant.

2. Cook the Spinach

  1. Add the chopped spinach in batches, stirring until wilted.
  2. Stir in the chickpeas and cook for 2 minutes.

3. Make the Creamy Sauce

  1. Pour in the heavy cream or coconut milk and simmer for 5-6 minutes until slightly thickened.
  2. Season with salt and black pepper, to taste.
  3. Remove from heat and allow the mixture to cool slightly.
  4. Fold in the crumbled queso fresco.

(The filling should be thick and scoopable, not watery.)

4. Prepare the Pastry

  1. Preheat oven to 375°F (190°C).
  2. Lightly grease two 24-cup muffin pans.
  3. Roll out the puff pastry on a lightly floured surface.
  4. Cut into 5-6-inch squares or circles.

Press each piece of pastry gently into the muffin cups to form small shells.

Note: You can also use two 24-cup mini muffin pans and cut the pastry into 3-inch circles and bake 18-22 minutes.

5. Fill the Pot Pies

  1. Spoon 1–2 tablespoons of filling into each pastry shell.
  2. Cut additional small pastry rounds or squares for the tops (if desired.)

You can either:

  • Leave them open-faced, or
  • Add small pastry lids and press lightly.

6. Egg Wash & Bake

  1. Brush the tops with beaten egg (if using).
  2. Bake for 25-30 minutes, or until:
    • pastry is golden, crunchy and puffed
    • filling is heated through

Let cool in the pan for 5 minutes, run a sharp knife around the edges of the pan to loosen the pies, then gently remove and serve on a platter with the Cilantro-Lime Yogurt Sauce drizzled on top of the pies (and extra on the side for dipping!)

Cilantro-Lime Yogurt Sauce

Makes about 2 cups

INGREDIENTS

  • 2 cups plain Greek yogurt
  • 3/4 cup fresh cilantro, finely chopped
  • 2-3 tbsp fresh lime juice
  • 1 tsp ground cumin
  • ½ tsp garlic powder (or 1 small clove minced)
  • Salt and black pepper to taste
  • Optional: 1 tsp honey or agave

INSTRUCTIONS

  1. Combine all ingredients in a bowl.
  2. Stir until smooth.
  3. Chill for 30 minutes to let flavors develop.

✨ Serving Tip

Arrange the pot pies on a platter with the yogurt sauce drizzled on top and bowl of extra sauce in the center and garnish with:

  • cilantro leaves
  • lime wedges
  • a light sprinkle of curry powder

👉🏻 Click here for the printable recipe

🌆 A Personal Wake-Up Call

If I’m being honest, this weekend was more than just a fun getaway.

It was a wake-up call.

After spending the past four years in Texas, working in a different rhythm of life and a full-time role, I didn’t realize how much I had been missing this part of myself.

This creative energy.

This sense of community.

This connection to food, storytelling, and building something meaningful.

It reminded me of my time in New York City—where I first built my business, my network, and my creative identity.

And it made one thing very clear:

I want to find my way back there.

Back to a life that feels aligned.

Back to my people.

Back to the energy that fuels me.

❤️ Why Finding Your Tribe Matters

Finding your tribe isn’t just about friendship.

It’s about alignment.

It’s about surrounding yourself with people who:

  • inspire you
  • support you
  • challenge you
  • and help you grow

It’s about creating a life—and a business—that feels authentic, fulfilling, and connected.

Because when you’re in the right room, everything changes.

A special thanks to Jenn Sharp, our amazing event hostess and organizer who brought us all together and made this retreat magical for all of us!
And another shoutout to my new food tribe! You are all so talented and inspiring, and I am so happy to have met you all – I can’t wait to next year’s adventure together again! France? Italy? I’m In!

Debbie Dale BlackwellMindy CrosatoAnne-Marie PietersmaBetty WilliamsKerry FaberCulinUrsa — Elizabeth BaerAnnada D. Rathi (& her husband Dinesh), Lori Olson WhiteJanet Mary CobbElizabeth PizzinatoRebecca BlackwellKristen HessMarjory PilleySarah PilleyEmily PilleyAnne BlackwellAlex_SharpDianne JacobColton Sharp


🎧 Listen to the Full Story

If you want the full behind-the-scenes story—including more reflections from the retreat and what it taught me about life, creativity, and business—

🎧 Listen to the companion podcast episode

Finding Your Tribe: The Food Writer Retreat That Changed My Life

And listen to more episodes on The Artful Gourmet Podcast

✍️ Read the Full Essay on Substack

For a deeper, more editorial take on this experience (with more reflections + photos):

📖 Read the Substack essay here


💬 I’d Love to Hear From You

Have you found your tribe yet?

Or are you still searching for your people?

Drop a comment below or send me a message—I’d love to hear your story.


🔚 Final Thoughts

If you’ve been feeling a little disconnected lately…

or like something is missing…

Maybe it’s not that you’ve lost your way.

Maybe you just haven’t found your people yet.

And when you do?

Everything shifts.

Groovy Eats Ep3 | March 1975 – The Eagles’ “Best of My Love,” Beginnings of ‘SoCal’ Sound :: Chicken Parmigiana at Dan Tana’s

Groovy Eats Show by Kristen Hess

🎶 Groovy Eats Season 1: The 1970s

Cooking through the decades, one groove at a time.

Welcome back to Groovy Eats, where we turn up the vinyl, tie on a vintage apron, and cook our way through the soundtrack of our lives. Season 1 is all about the 1970s — a decade of harmony, highway dreams, red-sauce Italian, and radio hits that still make us roll the windows down.  Today, we’re heading all the way back to March 1975 — Southern California, with the Eagles at Table 4 at Dan Tana’s– vodka tonics clinking, Chicken Parmigiana and spicy pasta around the table, and a little acoustic ballad climbing the charts.

The Rise of the SoCal Sound

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In the early 1970s, Los Angeles wasn’t just a city — it was a vibe.

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Laurel Canyon singer-songwriters were blending folk, country, and rock into something warm, introspective, and radio-ready.

Eagles

At the center of that movement were Don Henley and Glenn Frey, the heartbeat of the Eagles. Alongside Bernie Leadon, Randy Meisner, and soon-to-join Don Felder,

Eagles Hotel California

they created harmonies so tight and melodies so golden they practically smelled like Pacific Coast Highway salt air.

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They weren’t alone. The mid-70s California scene was alive with: Jackson Browne, Joni Mitchell, J.D. Souther, Linda Ronstadt, Fleetwood Mac and The Doobie Brothers – renowned mid-70s California artists that shaped the scene for what we now call the “California Sound” 

Troubadour

— intimate lyrics, polished production, and rich harmonies that made you believe in open roads and second chances.

Eagles 1975

With their brilliant fusion of country, bluegrass, and rock, the Eagles define the sound of Los Angeles in the ’70s.

As one Eagles biography put it: “LA was a town built by dreamers.” And these guys? They were building the soundtrack to that dream.


Eagles On The Border Album

March 1, 1975 – A Breakthrough Moment

On February 25, 1975, “Best of My Love” reached #1 on the Billboard Hot 100. By March 1, it officially sat at the top.

The song appeared on their 1974 album, On the Border — an album born out of tension, creative clashes, and a desire to shed the “country band” label.

Produced first by Glyn Johns in London — and later completed in LA with Bill SzymczykOn the Border marked a turning point. The Eagles were moving from country-rock into something bigger. Louder. More radio-dominant. More rock ’n’ roll.

And “Best of My Love”? It was the bridge.


The Meaning Behind “Best of My Love”

Written by Henley, Frey, and J.D. Souther, the song is often mistaken for a sweet wedding ballad.

It’s not.

It’s about love unraveling.

Henley wrote it during a painful breakup with Suzannah Martin, the girlfriend of Don Henley in the early 1970s, whose breakup with him inspired the lyrics to the band’s first #1 hit, “Best of My Love“. Their relationship and subsequent split in 1973/1974 are considered a major influence on the emotional tone of the On the Border album.

The lyrics reflect that quiet realization when two people have given all they can — and it still isn’t enough.

“You see it your way, and I see it mine… but we both see it slipping away.”

There’s melancholy in the melody. Acceptance in the harmonies. And maturity in the restraint.

Even more poetic?

Dan Tana's Restaurant Hollywood

Much of the song was written at Dan Tana’s, the legendary red-sauce Italian restaurant next to The Troubadour in West Hollywood.

Dan Tanas Chicken Parmigiana

Henley later said many of the lyrics came together there —

between vodka tonics, Chicken Parm and bowls of Penne Arrabbiata.


Dan Tana's

Dan Tana’s – Where the Music Met the Marinara

Before 1976, Dan Tana’s served only about 25 dinners a night. Then the musicians moved in.

Dan Tana's Restaurant

Glenn Frey and Don Henley were regulars at Table 4.

Dan Tanas Booth 4

They drank vodka tonics. They observed the couples around them. They scribbled lyrics.

Later, that same table would inspire

their hit song “Lyin’ Eyes” from their 1975 album One of These Nights,

Eagles One of These Nights

which they were currently writing when “Best of My Love” hit #1 on the charts and released later that year on June 10, 1975.

Dan Tana's Restaurant

Dan Tana’s was clubby, dimly lit, discreet. Old-school tuxedoed waiters.

Red booths. Thick marinara. Late nights. Vodka Tonics. Geniuses at work.

And two popular dishes became favorites of their late night songwriting sessions: Chicken Parmigiana and Don Henley”s favorite dish, Penne Arrabbiata.

So of course… we’re making both. 🍗 🍝 

Dan Tana's Style Chicken Parmigiana + Penne Arrabiatta


The Recipes

Dan Tana's Chicken Parmigiana

🍗 Dan Tana’s–Style Chicken Parmigiana

This old School Italian-American popular dish was served at Dan Tana’s in the mid 70s and still today – the popular Italian restaurant in LA where the Eagles wrote many of their albums and #1 hits like “Best of my Love” and “Lyin’ Eyes”. Eagles sat at table 4 and drank vodka tonics, ate this Chicken Parmigiana and Penne Arriabatta after late nights playing at the Troubadour next door.

The secret? Thin cutlets + sauce on the bottom.

That layering? Pure 1970s Hollywood magic.

“The chicken parmigiana, crisp and annealed under a thick layer of marinara sauce and melted cheese, is exactly what you want when you come to a place like Dan Tana’s…” – Los Angeles Times, Oct 28 2016

Dan Tana's Style Chicken Parmigiana

Dan Tana's Style Chicken Parmigiana
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Dan Tana's Chicken Parmigiana

This old School Italian-American popular dish was served at Dan Tana's in the mid 70s and still today - the popular Italian restaurant in LA where the Eagles wrote many of their albums and #1 hits like "Best of my Love" and "Lyin' Eyes". Eagles sat at table 4 and drank vodka tonics, ate this Chicken Parmigiana and Penne Arriabatta after late nights playing at the Troubadour next door. The secret? Thin cutlets + sauce on the bottom. That layering? Pure 1970s Hollywood magic.

Prep Time 15 minutes
Cook Time 15 minutes
Total Time 30 minutes
Servings: 4 people
Course: Main Course
Cuisine: Italian

Ingredients
  

  • 2 boneless skinless chicken breasts, butterflied & pounded thin
  • Flour
  • 2 cups Italian breadcrumbs
  • ¼ cup grated Parmesan cheese
  • 2 cups marinara (San Marzano tomatoes, garlic, olive oil, oregano)
  • Fresh mozzarella, sliced
  • Vegetable oil for frying

Method
 

  1. Pound chicken to ¼-inch thickness. Season with salt and pepper.
  2. Dredge: flour → egg → breadcrumbs.
  3. Fry at 350°F until golden (2–3 min per side).
  4. Spread marinara on baking dish. Place chicken on top.
  5. Add sauce to center + mozzarella.
  6. Bake at 400°F (5–10 min), broil to brown.
  7. Plate with sauce underneath to keep crust crisp.

Notes

Recreating the Dan Tana’s experience at home relies on high-quality ingredients and a specific "old-school" layering technique. While they don't publish a formal cookbook, the recipe is based on long-standing descriptions from the restaurant's staff and regular patrons.
The key to this version is the thinness of the chicken and the "sauce-on-bottom" plating that keeps the crust from getting soggy.


Penne-Arriabatta

🍝 Dan Tana’s–Style Penne Arrabbiata

Henley’s late-night staple. “Arrabbiata” means “angry” (and spicy) — and this one has heat.

  • Base: Plenty of extra virgin olive oil and several cloves of thinly sliced or minced fresh garlic.
  • The Heat: The key to the “angry” sauce is a generous amount of crushed red pepper flakes (peperoncino) sautéed in the oil with the garlic until fragrant.
  • Tomatoes: Use canned whole peeled plum tomatoes (preferably San Marzano), crushed by hand or lightly pureed.
  • Finishing: The penne is cooked until just al dente and then tossed directly in the spicy sauce for the final 1–2 minutes of cooking so the pasta absorbs the flavors. It is often finished with fresh parsley and a dusting of Pecorino Romano or Parmesan.

Spicy. Bold. Perfect with a vodka tonic. Or a glass of red.

Dan Tana's Style Penne Arrabiatta

Dan Tana's Style Penne Arrabiatta

Dan Tana’s Style Penne Arrabbiata

This is the "angry" spicy pasta famously favored by Don Henley. Base: Plenty of extra virgin olive oil and several cloves of thinly sliced or minced fresh garlic. The Heat: The key to the "angry" sauce is a generous amount of crushed red pepper flakes (peperoncino) sautéed in the oil with the garlic until fragrant. Tomatoes: Use canned whole peeled plum tomatoes (preferably San Marzano), crushed by hand or lightly pureed. Finishing: The penne is cooked until just al dente and then tossed directly in the spicy sauce for the final 1–2 minutes of cooking so the pasta absorbs the flavors. It is often finished with fresh parsley and a dusting of Pecorino Romano or Parmesan.
Prep Time 15 minutes
Cook Time 20 minutes
Total Time 35 minutes
Servings: 4 people
Course: Main Course
Cuisine: Italian

Ingredients
  

  • 1 lb penne or pasta or your choice
  • 1/3 cup olive oil
  • 1-2 tsp red pepper flakes
  • 5-6 garlic cloves
  • 1 can (28 oz) San Marzano whole peeled tomatoes, crushed by hand
  • Fresh chopped Italian parsley, for garnish
  • finely grated Pecorino Romano or Parmesan cheese, for garnish
  • sea salt and freshly cracked pepper, to taste

Equipment

  • 1 large pot for cooking the pasta
  • 1 large saute pan for cooking the sauce

Method
 

Sauté Aromatics
  1. In a large skillet, heat the olive oil over medium heat. Add the minced garlic and red pepper flakes. Sauté for 1–2 minutes until fragrant but do not let the garlic brown.
Simmer Sauce
  1. Add the hand-crushed tomatoes (and juices). Simmer on low for 15–20 minutes, stirring occasionally until the sauce thickens and the flavors meld.
Boil Pasta
  1. While the sauce simmers, cook the penne in heavily salted water until it is just al dente (usually 1 minute less than package instructions). Reserve 1/2 cup of pasta water.
Combine
  1. Drain the pasta and add it directly into the skillet with the sauce. Toss well, adding a splash of reserved pasta water if needed to help the sauce coat every noodle.
Serve
  1. Stir in fresh parsley and top with a generous dusting of cheese.
  2. Serve with Chicken Parmigiana, a glass of red wine (or vodka tonic!), some crusty garlic or Italian bread, and Caesar Salad.

Notes

This dish, a favorite of Don Henley, is known for its "angry" (spicy) profile.
  • Base: Plenty of extra virgin olive oil and several cloves of thinly sliced or minced fresh garlic.
  • The Heat: The key to the "angry" sauce is a generous amount of crushed red pepper flakes (peperoncino) sautéed in the oil with the garlic until fragrant.
  • Tomatoes: Use canned whole peeled plum tomatoes (preferably San Marzano), crushed by hand or lightly pureed.
  • Finishing: The penne is cooked until just al dente and then tossed directly in the spicy sauce for the final 1–2 minutes of cooking so the pasta absorbs the flavors. It is often finished with fresh parsley and a dusting of Pecorino Romano or Parmesan.


The Eagles’ Evolution: From Country to Classic Rock Legends

By 1975, the Eagles weren’t just part of the California Sound — they were defining it.

They would go on to dominate the decade with:

Eagles Greatest Hits

Their compilation Their Greatest Hits (1971–1975) remains one of the best-selling albums of all time.

But success didn’t come without struggle. Creative tensions. Lineup changes. Fame’s pressure. The departure of Bernie Leadon. Later, explosive internal conflicts.

And yet — as Henley once said:

“Your whole life is one long journey… getting there is more important than the journey’s end.”

The search. That was their theme.


A Personal Note :: March 1975

I was only 5 1/2 years old in March 1975, but I do remember what it felt like in my world as a kid back then.

Ballet recitals. Pet Rocks. Slinkies. Bomb Pops. Barbies. Playing on the tire swing hanging from my best friend’s big Willow tree across the street.

Freedom. Discovery. Music drifting through open windows on a lovely Spring day.

Mom and Dad doing card night with their friends on a Friday night, drinks, laughter and fun – I couldn’t wait to be a grown up. 


Why This Moment Matters

“Best of My Love” marked the Eagles’ transition from country-rock darlings to mainstream superstars.

It also marked the beginning of what would become classic rock canon.

Hotel California

Soft rock. Adult-oriented rock. California cool.

And somewhere in West Hollywood, over crispy chicken and spicy pasta, two musicians were simply trying to make sense of love – and life in the fast lane. 

If this episode brought back a memory, a melody, or a moment — share it in the comments. What song instantly takes you back to 1975?

Until next time…
Stay groovy. Take it Easy. 💋✨


🎥 Watch + Listen + Read

Let’s cook. Let’s listen. Let’s remember.  This episode comes to life across the Groovy Eats universe:

🎙 Listen to the Groovy Eats episode on The Artful Gourmet podcast 

✨ Watch the full cooking episode on YouTube 

📕 Read the editorial reflection and essay on Artful Gourmet Substack

Listen to all the Eagles music on YouTube

Listen to my Spotify Playlist of all my fav Eagles Hits

The Eagles

FAQ: The Eagles, “Best of My Love” (March 1975) & Dan Tana’s Recipes

What is Groovy Eats Episode 3 about?

Groovy Eats Ep3 | March 1975 explores how the Eagles’ first #1 hit, “Best of My Love,” helped define the SoCal Sound—and recreates two dishes linked to the band’s late-night songwriting era: Chicken Parmigiana and Penne Arrabbiata inspired by Dan Tana’s in West Hollywood.

When did “Best of My Love” reach #1?

Best of My Love” reached #1 on the Billboard Hot 100 in March 1975 (peak week: March 1, 1975), becoming the Eagles’ first chart-topping single.

Who wrote “Best of My Love” by the Eagles?

Best of My Love” was written by Don Henley, Glenn Frey, and J.D. Souther.

What is the meaning behind “Best of My Love”?

Although it’s often played as a romantic song, “Best of My Love” is a melancholy breakup ballad—a reflection on a relationship falling apart despite both people trying and giving their “best.”

Is “Best of My Love” actually a breakup song?

Yes. “Best of My Love” is widely interpreted as a breakup song, focusing on emotional distance, miscommunication, and the quiet realization that love alone isn’t enough to hold two people together.

Which Eagles album is “Best of My Love” on?

“Best of My Love” appears on the Eagles’ 1974 album On the Border, released as a single later and rising to #1 in 1975.

Why is March 1975 important in Eagles history?

March 1975 marks the Eagles’ transition from country-rock favorites into mainstream superstars, with “Best of My Love” proving they could dominate pop radio—setting the stage for later hits and the band’s evolution into classic rock icons.

What is the “SoCal Sound” and how did the Eagles shape it?

The SoCal Sound (Southern California Sound) refers to the polished, harmony-rich blend of folk-rock, country-rock, and pop that dominated 1970s radio. The Eagles shaped it through tight vocal harmonies, melodic songwriting, and California storytelling, bridging country roots and mainstream rock appeal.

Who did the Eagles collaborate with in the 1970s LA scene?

The Eagles’ early-to-mid 70s orbit included collaborators and peers such as Jackson Browne, J.D. Souther, Joni Mitchell, and Linda Ronstadt, all central to the Laurel Canyon / West Coast rock ecosystem.

What is Dan Tana’s and why is it connected to the Eagles?

Dan Tana’s is a legendary Italian-American restaurant in West Hollywood, known for old-school Hollywood ambience and classic red-sauce dishes. It’s associated with the Eagles because Henley and Frey were regulars and were known to write and workshop ideas there during their 1970s rise.

Did the Eagles write songs at Dan Tana’s?

The Eagles are famously linked to Dan Tana’s as a creative hangout—a place where they observed LA relationships and nightlife and developed ideas that influenced their songwriting during the mid-70s.

What did the Eagles eat at Dan Tana’s?

The Eagles are often associated with Dan Tana’s classic Italian-American staples, especially Chicken Parmigiana and late-night bowls of Penne Arrabbiata, plus other old-school menu favorites like Caesar Salad, garlic bread and vodka tonics and red wine – typical of the restaurant’s early-mid 70s era.

What makes Dan Tana’s-style Chicken Parmigiana different?

Dan Tana’s-style Chicken Parmigiana emphasizes a thin, crispy cutlet and an old-school plating technique: sauce on the bottom, chicken on top, then a moderate amount of marinara and melted mozzarella—so the crust stays crisp.

What is Penne Arrabbiata and why is it called “angry”?

Penne Arrabbiata is a spicy Italian pasta sauce made with garlic, olive oil, tomatoes, and crushed red pepper flakes. “Arrabbiata” means “angry” in Italian, referring to the heat from the chili.

How do you make authentic Penne Arrabbiata at home?

For an authentic version: sauté garlic and red pepper flakes in olive oil, add crushed San Marzano tomatoes, simmer until thick, then toss with al dente penne and finish with parsley and Pecorino Romano or Parmesan cheese.

What should I serve with Chicken Parmigiana and Penne Arrabbiata?

Great pairings include a simple Caesar salad, garlicky sautéed greens, or roasted broccoli, plus warm Italian bread for the extra sauce. For drinks, a red Italian wine (Sangiovese or Chianti-style) pairs beautifully with both dishes.

What are the key takeaways from Groovy Eats Ep3?

  • “Best of My Love” was the Eagles’ first #1 hit in March 1975

  • The song’s meaning is more heartbreak than romance

  • The Eagles helped define the SoCal Sound and soft rock era

  • Dan Tana’s is part of the band’s LA mythology

  • Chicken Parmigiana + Penne Arrabbiata capture the 1970s West Hollywood vibe

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Groovy Eats Ep 1 | January 1978 :: Chicken Divan + Baby Come Back

Welcome to Groovy Eats – our new YouTube show + Podcast that goes back in time, pairing retro music + recipes from the 70s, 80s and 90s 🎶 ⭐

Episode 1 |  January 1978 :: Chicken Divan, “Baby Come Back,” + the Comfort of Simple Times

Some years stay with you forever.
For me, 1978 is one of them.

Kristen, Jen and Dad
Me, my Sister Jen and Dad

January 1978 wasn’t flashy or loud — it was warm, comforting, and full of everyday magic. The radio played soft rock on repeat, dinner was often a casserole bubbling in the oven, and family time happened around the table, not a screen.

Baby Come Back by Player
Baby Come Back by Player

That’s the spirit behind Groovy Eats Episode 1, my long awaited, brand new cooking show series. Each episode I’ll be pairing a #1 retro hit from the week with a beloved retro recipe from that same time period. Groovy Eats is all about letting food and music do what they do best – take us back in time,  bring back the good memories, and take us home.


The Song That Sets the Mood: “Baby Come Back”

The #1 song this week in January 1978 was “Baby Come Back” by Player

Baby Come Back Player
Baby Come Back by Player

a smooth, emotional soft-rock anthem that helped define the late ’70s “yacht rock” era. It remained #1 on the charts for 6 weeks in January and February 1978, along with other Yacht Rock and soft rock bands like the Bee Gees, Paul Simon, Ambrosia, Fleetwood Mac, and Styx.

Billboard Top 100 - January 1978
Billboard Top 100 – January 1978

“Baby Come Back” is a song about lost love, longing, regret, and hope — wrapped in gentle harmonies and that unmistakable mellow groove. It didn’t demand attention. It earned it. And it remains one of my favorite 70s love songs today.

Baby Come Back #1 Single 1978 Player
Baby Come Back #1 Single 1978 Player

For me, this song instantly brings back memories of an epic and unforgettable  five-week family road trip in the Summer of 1978 from New York to California and back.

Kristen and Jenni 1978
Me and my sister Jen on roadtrip out West 1978

I was 8 years old and my family packed me and my sister up in the back of a truck, with a hitch and an RV – and we adventured off into the unknown to the wild wild West.

Long highways, crossword puzzles, campfires and marshmallows, hiking and exploring nature, panning for gold, salt flats in Salt Lake City, feeding Prairie Dogs in the Badlands, walkie talkies, Seattle, Mount Rushmore, geysers in Yellowstone Park, desert sunsets, and the radio always on.

Yacht Rock
Yacht Rock

This music was the soundtrack to childhood freedom — when life felt simple and wide open. Yacht Rock was king and something that always reminds me of that trip and the memories with my family as we traveled out West, without a care in the world.


The Dish That Brings It All Back: Chicken Divan

If the song sets the emotional tone, Chicken Divan sets the table.

Chicken Divan Hotel Parisien

Originally created in the early 1940s by Anthony Lagasi, chef at at the elegant Divan Parisien restaurant at Hotel Chatham in New York City, Lagasi had created a baked dish using chicken and broccoli in a rich bechamel sauce, creating the casserole we now know as Chicken Divan. It eventually made its way into American home kitchens — and by the 1970s, it was a full-blown casserole classic that everyone loved.

Chicken Divan

Creamy. Cozy. Comforting.
It was the kind of dish that felt “fancy” but familiar — perfect for family dinners and dinner parties alike.

Mom and Dad 1970s

This was a recipe my mom made for us, and when it was in the oven, you knew dinner was going to be good. It meant everyone was home. It meant we were sitting down together.

Chicken Divan

The casserole features chicken, broccoli, and a creamy curry sauce with a little lemon and wine added for flavor, topped with Cheddar cheese, buttery parmesan panko breadcrumbs and slivered almonds, all baked in the oven for a delicious and easy weeknight retro dinner the family will love.

This cozy and delicious casserole only takes about 30-45 minutes to make from start to finish,  and you can make it ahead of time and reheat it in the oven or microwave leftovers, or cover it well in plastic wrap/foil and freeze it for later.

The recipe below is the shortcut version that my Mom used to make in the 70s-80s but if you have time and the desire – you can choose to make a creamy Mornay sauce in place of the Cream of Chicken Soup and mayo if you’re feeling fancy.

Side Note: A Mornay sauce is a béchamel sauce with grated cheese added. The usual cheeses in French cuisine are Parmesan and Gruyère, but other cheeses may also be used. In French cuisine, it is often used in fish dishes. In American cuisine, a Mornay sauce made with cheddar is commonly used for macaroni and cheese.

Please enjoy this luscious curry chicken cheesy broccoli delight – and let’s go back in time to 1978 – when life was good. 


Chicken Divan (Late-’70s Casserole Style)

A true “Retro Metro” staple — exactly how it was loved in 1978.

Chicken Divan

Chicken Divan was a A “Retro Metro” staple that remained highly popular in 1978. It consisted of chicken and broccoli smothered in a cheese-infused Mornay sauce (or the shortcut version I made in the recipe below, using condensed soup), often topped with buttered breadcrumbs and/or toasted almonds.

How it was typically served:
Over rice or buttered noodles with a green salad and crusty bread and a crisp white wine — very late ’70s “continental dinner party” vibes.

Chicken Divan

Chicken Divan (Late-’70s Casserole Style)

In January 1978, popular recipes centered on elegant "Continental" dinner party fare, hearty winter stews, and the burgeoning "gourmet-to-go" movement. This month saw the peak of French-inspired classics and the debut of unique internationally-influenced dishes that defined the late 1970s. Chicken Divan was a "Retro Metro" staple that remained highly popular in 1978. It consisted of chicken and broccoli smothered in a cheese-infused Mornay sauce (or the shortcut version using condensed soup), often topped with toasted almonds.
Prep Time 15 minutes
Cook Time 25 minutes
Total Time 40 minutes
Servings: 6 people
Course: Main Course
Cuisine: American, French

Ingredients
  

  • 3 cups cooked chicken, chopped or shredded (rotisserie works well)
  • 4 cups broccoli florets (or 2 (10 oz) packages broccoli spears), cooked until just tender
  • 2 cans (10.5 oz each) condensed cream of chicken soup (or cream of mushroom)
  • 1 cup mayonnaise
  • 1-2 tsp lemon juice
  • 1-2 tsp curry powder
  • 1/4 cup dry white wine or a splash of sherry
  • 1.5 cups shredded cheddar
  • 4 tbsp grated Parmesan
  • 1/4 cup panko or italian breadcrumbs
  • 1 knob butter, melted for Parmesan Panko topping
  • 1/2 cup sliced almonds

Method
 

  1. Heat oven to 350°F.
  2. Arrange broccoli in the bottom of a greased 9x13-inch baking dish. Top with chicken.
  3. In a bowl, mix soup, mayonnaise, lemon juice, curry powder, and wine/sherry until smooth.
  4. Spread sauce over the chicken and broccoli. Sprinkle with cheese.
  5. Top with sliced almonds (and/or buttered crumbs).
  6. Bake 25–35 minutes, until hot and bubbling. Let rest 5–10 minutes before serving.

Notes

How it was typically served in the 70s: over cooked rice or with buttered noodles (very “Continental dinner party” energy).
Garlic bread and a green salad are great sides. And a light crisp white wine like Sauvignon Blanc or Chardonnay pairs well, if you're feeling fancy.
You can make it ahead of time and freeze it for later. Simply let it thaw and bake at 350 degrees for 25-30 minutes. 


Why Music and Food Are the Ultimate Time Machines

What I love most about this pairing is how effortlessly it transports you.

Baby Come Back Player

One song. One dish.
Suddenly you’re back in another decade — remembering the people, the places, the feeling of being safe and cared for.

Player

Food holds memory. Music unlocks it.

Dad, Jen and Mom

Dad, my Sister and Mom in 1978.

My childhood home in 1978 on Cherry Hill Lane, in West Webster NY .

That’s the heart of Groovy Eats — cooking through the decades, one groove at a time, and honoring the moments that shaped us along the way.

Groovy Eats


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If this episode sparked a memory for you, I’d love to hear it. Leave a comment and tell me: What song or dish instantly takes you back to childhood?

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Until then, peace out, and keep grooving, one bite at a time. 😀🌟🙌


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